Masturbation
by Randall Frederick Note: I began noticing that these articles were picking up a significant amount of attention over a month ago, especially in Europe. The series is reprinted here, in its entirety...
View ArticlePorn Statistics
by Randall Frederick Porn website Pornhub recently released stats on what search terms are seeing frequent traffic. In my home state of Louisiana, the three highest search terms are Ebony, Teen, and...
View ArticlePenis Size
by Randall S. Frederick I once heard a generalization that women fear being “too much” and men are afraid they are “not enough.” Physically, emotionally, and relationally are we too chubby, tall,...
View ArticleNaughty Teacher
by Randall S. Frederick A few days ago, another teacher scandal broke – this one in Alhambra, which is just a short drive away from Pasadena, where I’m currently living. By this point, having grown up...
View ArticleConstruction of Sexual Ethics, pt. II
by Randall S. Frederick Also published on Theology & the City Cont. from part I —— For me, interest in ethical frameworks did not come from a freshman course in Philosophy, or even from the...
View ArticleWhy A Single, Straight, White Male Turned Down Sex
by Randall S. Frederick There was flirty banter back and forth for about 48 hours before I got it. A picture. Flattering. On the bed, down the shirt, flattering light, with a lot of expectation. “What...
View ArticleDating 101: If You Knew Me, Then You Would…
by Randall S. Frederick Given the success of the articles in this series, I’ve been able to listen to more people talk about their relationships and share that part of their lives. As a disinterested...
View ArticleRim Jobs
by Randall S. Frederick Q: What can you tell me about rim jobs? A: I’m assuming that you are not asking about how to detail your car’s wheels, so let’s – echem – dive right in. Ass play has been...
View ArticleHave You Heard of Crymaxing?
by Randall S. Frederick Q: Have you ever heard of the term “crymaxing”? I feel like that’s a thing you would know about. A: “Crymaxing” is an expression for crying after coitus, combining the words...
View ArticleIdiosyncratic Masturbation
by Randall S. Frederick Q: I really enjoy having sex with my new boyfriend, but we’re having a really hard time because he never has an orgasm with me and it’s really starting to bother me. He says he...
View ArticleThe Moral Economy of Pornography
by Randall S. Frederick A few days ago, a friend put an article to me by Naomi Wolf and asked my thoughts on porn. Privately, a small circle of friends know that an academic mentor of mine held a...
View ArticleThe Moral Economy of Porn, pt. 2
by Randall S. Frederick When I was little, my parents hid nothing from me. I was very aware of sex, sexuality, and the nude form by the time of kindergarten. One time, when the teacher stepped out, I...
View ArticleAll the Orgasms, Please! pt. 3
by Randall S. Frederick Cont. from part 1 and part 2 U-Spot Orgasm or “Squirting” Probably the most contested kind of orgasm on this list, as many women say they either do not believe a woman can...
View ArticleThe Girth and Length Debate
by Randall S. Frederick Q: What are your thoughts on penis size? A: Well, penises don’t really do much for me since I’m mostly straight, but pretty consistently, I hear my lady friends saying...
View ArticleWhat Are People Thinking About When They Masturbate?
by Randall S. Frederick The best part about masturbating is that no one has to know when you did it, where you did it, or what you were thinking when it happened. It’s your little secret. Unless, of...
View ArticleVibrators
by Randall S. Frederick The first time I saw a vibrator, I knew immediately what it was. I’m not sure how or why. I just knew. Oh. This does this thing. Okay. Hunh. Although I’ve never owned one for...
View ArticleMerry Month of May(sturbation)
by Randall S. Frederick You may have seen articles online indicating (perhaps tongue-in-cheek) that May is Masturbation Month. As though something were special about this? I was having brunch with a...
View ArticleInternet Porn Causes Sexual Dysfunction
Editor’s Note: This article was originally published in Behavioral Science, under the title “Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports” by Brian Y. Park,...
View ArticlePorn Statistics
by Randall Frederick Porn website Pornhub recently released stats on what search terms are seeing frequent traffic. In my home state of Louisiana, the three highest search terms are Ebony, Teen, and...
View ArticleNaughty Teacher
by Randall S. Frederick A few days ago, another teacher scandal broke – this one in Alhambra, which is just a short drive away from Pasadena, where I’m currently living. By this point, having grown up...
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